Picture this. You’re having a night out with friends and it’s your turn to get you all some drinks. You walk towards the bar and suddenly she stands there: the potential girl of your dreams. You look at each other and then she smiles and says hello. You say hi back and tell the bartender your order. While you wait for your drinks, your brain keeps rattling: how do you start a conversation? But before you even come up with an opening line, she walks away. A missed opportunity! So, how to talk to a girl you like?
Avoid corny opening lines
Did it hurt when you fell down from heaven? Your father must be a thief: he stole all of the stars from the sky and put them in your eyes. Do you believe in love at first sight or shall I walk past one more time?
It may sound smart to you, but opening lines like this are nothing but corny to hear for the girl you like. Avoid them and just start a normal conversation.
Offer her a drink
When you’re in a bar this is the most obvious way to start a conversation with a girl you like. After all, you are there to order a drink, so it’s a very logical way to have some small talk. Ask her what she likes to drink, introduce yourself and the rest will follow.
By the way! What a girl drinks in a bar tells a lot about her. Is she a subtle pinot noir or more like a a spicy malbec? Draw your conclusion and start your chat.
Give her a compliment
The best way to talk to a girl you like is to give her a sincere compliment. Be honest and don’t try anything corny. What was the first thing you noticed when you saw her? What is she wearing? How does she treat the people around her? Give her a sincere compliment and see what conversation ensues.
Show interest and ask questions
We all want to be seen and heard. Certainly women. The best way to talk to a girl you like is to show interest and ask questions. Why is she in this bar? Who is her company? Is she having a nice evening? What did she do before she came here? Avoid an interview and keep it sincere.
Ask a very specific question
Do you have no idea how to start a conversation? Then ask a very specific question where you probably already know the answer on. “Am I mistaken, or did you also work here?” or “Didn’t we go to the same high school?” Let’s be honest: you know the answer, but it’s a very easy way to start a chit-chat.
So, how to talk to a girl you like?
We hope we gave you some useful tips about how to talk to a girl you like. The most important one: always talk with respect and don’t touch her without permission. Believe in yourself and go for it!
